Why do the majority of feminists hate men (not all feminists)?

Because the majority of the entire society hates men. Men are motivated to judge other men harshly because they are motivated to be more competitive and disrespectful, which involves othering your enemy, and the legacy of war is that men judge anonymous groups of other men the way their leadership tells them to, generally with distrust. Women are motivated to judge other women more leniently, and to be suspicious of men, and are quadrupling down on the idea men are just more often horrible human beings. Some feminism opportunistically feeds that, but they surely didn’t create it. Once you have those leanings, you start devaluing men as human beings.

That abuse is not severe, but it is relentless, and much more easily escalates to actual hate that even the most recalcitrant misogyny.

Look at our vocabulary of abuse. I can’t reasonably call a woman publicly by the name for her genitals. If I used the actual word here, I would probably be reported. But I can call someone a dick, a prick, etc. fairly lightly. The strongest terms of abuse have male gender added onto them just for good measure: someone who has penetrative sex with your mother is clearly male, we aren’t all making some obtuse reference to pegging; when we call someone a donkey, it is a male donkey by preference; we refer more lightly to the sons of dogs than to the dogs themselves; when we reference masturbation it is wanker or jerk(off), and that is pointedly male masturbation…. Even very mild insults are pointlessly male-oriented — someone who sucks, sucks something that women are thanked, not denigrated for sucking, so this is clearly about gay men… It is endless.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Measures of unconscious bias consistently display the same thing.

Don’t blame feminists for not analyzing the downside of the male role, or for not having properly addressed it within themselves. They naturally have their own stakes in mind, not yours. But ignore them when they try to stop you from doing the same. Because this goes back centuries, millennia, before the first extensive patriarchies existed, to when we decided it was the male role to handle wars. And insisting upon ignoring it is getting worse as the world gets more polarized, less respectful, more arbitrary and less honest.

This is not just about women, much less just about feminists. This is “the downside of patriarchy” in feminist terms and “the legacy of being a protector” in conservative terms. Men have a longstanding gender role, and being the first targets for abuse is a part of that role. Abuse cultivates hatred. Women will insist otherwise, but they can only do so by ignoring history. The penalty for men abusing women has always been more severe than their punishment for abusing one another or for women perpetrating any kind of abuse, at least on average. Whatever mythology feminists may advance for things like the acceptance of domestic violence, those are just lies, or they exist individually, but not as a trend.

How can I handle my distrust and jealousy for my partner?